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--></style></head><body lang="EN-US" link="blue" vlink="#954F72"><div class="WordSection1"><p class="MsoNormal"><a href="http://mosaic.fanaticalfanwear.com"><span lang="EN-US" style="color:windowtext;text-decoration:none"><img border="0" width="400" height="400" id="Picture_x0C24_4" src="cid:image089@70BD65A4.FAA46DBF" alt="image"></span></a></p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US>Dear! <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US>I've got a piece of information that might interest you, check it out here please <a href="http://mosaic.fanaticalfanwear.com">view message</a><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=MsoNormal><span lang=EN-US>Hugs, volunteers<o:p></o:p></span></p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><div><div style="border:none;border-top:solid #E1E1E1 1.0pt;padding:3.0pt 0cm 0cm 0cm"><p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="mso-fareast-language:EN">From:</span></b><span style="mso-fareast-language:EN"> volunteers [mailto:volunteers@lists.uknof.org.uk] <br><b>Sent:</b> Tuesday, May 09, 2017 9:14 AM<br><b>To:</b> prt@prt.org<br><b>Subject:</b> today you, tomorrow me.<o:p></o:p></span></p></div></div><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>You didn't really give us enough info to go on, OP. There's nothing inherently wrong with being nice unless you do things people don't actually want you to do because you perceive it as helpful or if you're doing it with the intention of getting something in return. So without specific examples of situations and conversations it's impossible to say if you actually are a pleasant, polite person or if people see you as trying too hard or fake. But here is a comment I gave another user that had a similar problem which might help you understand why this happens a lot. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- do you have a passion in life? Do you have goals you are actively working toward? Do you have any interesting hobbies to pass your time? Do you have any career goals or at least a plan on how to get there?<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- do you work to improve yourself? Are you aware of your flaws and try to decrease them in a healthy way? On the flip side, do you constantly talk down to yourself in front of others? That is very unattractive. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- are you considerate of others' needs and feelings? Are you kind to people who you don't directly know? (For example, how do you treat wait staff?) On the flip side of this, do you ever make your own needs and preferences known in a respectful way? Few women want to date a lap dog, but no we don't want "jerks" either despite what people say. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- are you generally more of a positive or a negative person? Do you complain a lot? That's a turn off for most people. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- how is your hygiene? Do you bathe at least every other day, brush your teeth twice a day, wear clean clothes, and try to keep your hair, facial hair, and fingernails clean and trimmed? Are you close to a healthy weight for your size? <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- do you drop too many hints or otherwise do things that could be interpreted as pressuring for sex? Women don't want to feel you only want their company for sex, unless it is a booty call situation. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>- do you ask the women you hang out with about their lives, opinions, hobbies, jobs, etc? Do you show interest in things that are important to them? <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>And lastly, is there anyone who could maybe give you feedback on your situation, that would be honest with you? <o:p></o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class=msonormal1><span lang=EN-US>These are the most common reasons why someone could be seen as undesirable by a woman. Think about them and try to see yourself through someone else's eyes. Good luck!<o:p></o:p></span></p><o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal">Sent from <a href="https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=550986">Mail</a> for Windows 10</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p></div></body></html>